Brandon & Victoria
The day we first met each other we gave each other a hi-five and joked about going to the courthouse to get married immediately because we knew we were meant to be. Our journey together felt sealed, as if that hi-five marked the beginning of a promise neither of us would break.
A letter to the birth parents
Hello,
We want to begin by honoring your courage and love. We can only imagine your strength and selflessness you must have, to be considering an adoption plan for your child. Even though we don’t know you yet, we are praying for you as you prepare to make one of the hardest, biggest and most important decisions of your life.
Please know that we do not take that lightly. We are not here to claim perfection—we are simply two people who have always known our purpose in life is to become parents and are incredibly grateful to embrace the responsibility and privilege of becoming first time parents.
We promise to raise your child with unconditional love, to always tell them about your courageous and selfless decision, and to honor the bond you share. We will keep you updated through photos/letters and honoring any open adoption agreements. We hope that you will feel a sense of peace knowing your child is deeply loved and will have a life full of opportunity.
Should you choose us as parents, it will be the greatest honor, privilege and joy of our lives. This child will be our miracle. They will be encouraged to be exactly who they are, surrounded by a large family, friend, and church community that cherishes them beyond measure.
Thank you for taking the time to read our letter and consider us. No matter where your path leads, we are praying for your strength, peace, and clarity every step of the way.
With love and gratitude,
Brandon & Victoria
Get to know...
Brandon
“Brandon's global upbringing has given him a deep understanding of diverse cultures and experiences, which will serve him well as a father. “- Chosen Family Member
As corny as it sounds, I fell in love with Brandon at first sight. I told myself I would marry that man that I was looking at across the back porch before we ever met or said one word to each other. I knew it an instant and it hit me like a lighting bolt that Brandon was the man I would spend the rest of my life with. Brandon is the most incredible human being I have ever known and my best friend. He has the kindest soul and a heart of gold. He’s never met a stranger and everyone who is blessed enough to meet or know him has only told me how much they love him and how amazing of a human being he is. Brandon, even though he’s an identical twin, is one of a kind. He’s truly the best thing that has ever happened to me and I couldn’t imagine my life without him. To know Brandon is to love Brandon. Anytime he enters a room, everyone immediately is drawn to him and his extroverted, loving, and caring nature. When he speaks, everyone hangs onto his every word. He’s the calm in any storm and everyone’s safe space to be seen, heard and validated.
Brandon is a God fearing man who leads with love and prioritizes his faith. That same passion carries into his involvement in men’s alliance, where he is a leader and finds strength in community and lifts others up alongside him.
I love that Brandon is a jack of all trades. From being able to build a house from the ground up to going to Galaxy Con every year with his brothers to completely nerd out, he can connect with anyone with his diverse interests. Brandon is an artist, writer, collects literature, loves to travel, listening to podcasts, and can name and quote almost every television show and movie.
Brandon has always been the “favorite uncle” and loves our nieces and nephews like they are our own children. To see Brandon with our nieces and nephews, teaching Bible school with the kids at our church, and being “Uncle B” to all of our friends kids has only made me fall in love with him more because it only confirms to me and everyone else in our lives that he has always meant to be a dad. Brandon is the role model that all of our family and friends want for their own children and he’s able to connect with each child individually.
Victoria
Victoria is the kind of woman who leans into life with curiosity, depth, and purpose. She has a natural pull toward stories—whether she’s unraveling the layers of a true crime documentary or piecing together generations of family history, she just dives in.
Sometimes you’ll find her with a word search or a book in hand, not just passing time but sharpening her focus and feeding her love for learning.
I always joke that Victoria could be the next jeopardy contestant as she has enough degrees for the entire family and continues to pursue learning and educating herself on a variety of topics. Her love for learning is endless and something she is so passionate about. Due to this, she will home school so we can travel and visit all of the places she’s teaching our child about.
Victoria is grounded in her faith. She asks questions, seeks truth, and leans into her relationship with God in a way that shapes how she lives, loves, and leads. That same passion carries into her involvement in women’s alliance, where she finds strength in community and lifts others up alongside her.
One of the clearest glimpses of her heart comes through the way she loves our nieces and nephews. Whether she’s playing, teaching, or simply spending time with them, there’s a natural warmth and care that draws them in. It’s not forced—it’s who she is. The way they respond to her, and the way she pours into them, makes it easy to see the kind of mother she will be present, nurturing and full of love. Victoria is nurturing, intelligent, stands up for what is right and wrong and is unapologetically and authentically herself.
“When Brandon met Victoria, I immediately saw how special she was. The word that comes to mind when I think of her is genuine. She is warm, intuitive, and deeply loving. It was clear from the beginning that they were meant for each other.
Watching them grow together as a couple has been one of the great joys of my life. They invited my daughter to be their flower girl and me to be a bridesmaid in their wedding, a reflection of how close our families are. Even now, though I live over 500 miles away, our bond remains strong. Victoria regularly checks in with my teenage daughter, Leena, offering mentorship, humor, and heartfelt connection. Victoria has built a career in service and advocacy, especially for children. Though she has no biological children, she has mothered through presence, action, and unconditional care, including to my daughter.”
Our Community
We have been married since 2015 and have always known our purpose in life is to become parents. After years of trying to grow our family through IVF, we were diagnosed with unexplained infertility. While this journey has brought deep sorrow, it has also strengthened our marriage, deepened our faith, and confirmed our calling to adoption.
We live in a safe community in the country with close access to numerous child friendly activities and cultural and diverse events. We cannot wait to share our love of travel and adventure with your child.
When we’re not at home spending time with our three amazing dogs (John Lennon, Leo, and SadieMae) you will find us at church, volunteering at church events, teaching Bible school, spending time with our extended family and friends, traveling, going to sporting events, working out and just love being on the move.
We’re both in leadership roles in our church and in our community and can’t wait for your child to be apart of every aspect of our lives.
Our family, friends, chosen family, and church community span the globe. Our huge support system can’t wait for us to be first time parents, support our journey in parenthood, and welcome a child into our family.
"They would never say a child would be lucky to have them as parents, because they would feel they are the lucky ones. That humility, that sense of gratitude and love, is precisely why they will make incredible parents.”
- Chosen Family Member
“I live 3500 miles away and I talk to Brandon and Victoria daily, Brandon hasn't lived in the UK since 2002 and till this day we have kept in contact without fail.”
-Chosen Family Member
"A child placed in their care would be deeply loved, nurtured, and raised in an environment marked by compassion, stability, and grace."
- Jon Cain, Pastor
Quick Facts
Brandon is an identical twin and has lived and traveled around the world.
Victoria earned two Master’s Degrees before the age of 23.
We are jacks of all trades- sports, movies, television, art, music, and all things nerdy.
We have built a career in service and advocacy, especially for children.
Faith and family is our top priority.
